January 2025 felt longer than 31 days for so many. We can move forward, though. The fires in Los Angeles and the tragic plane crash here in Washington, DC, are just a couple.
I was listening to a math school teacher who lost her home to the fires. She shared that she spent over 20 years saving for her down payment for her home and now she is left with nothing. When she went back to the site of her home she retrieved a small dish that she used in her bedroom to hold her jewelry. On the plate, it had the words "I think I'll just be happy today".
I think we can all use these words to be reminded that in the mist of our worry and sadness we can move forward with more tenderness. These are the times with overwhelming feelings and we need to remember to shorten the 'to do' list and just focus on small ways to be happy in the moment.
So how will you find happiness today? Maybe you aren't dealing with sad or tragic events however you can still benefit from being present to appreciate what you have. Find ways to be with community, laugh and cry.
February is often associated with love however we don't have to wait to offer compassion. Just the other day I was wearing my "Commanders" shirt and someone, who preferred a different team, said "You Lost!" and I replied "No I didn't". That goes into a deep place in my heart that knows that I am free from what anyone else may think. The Commanders may not have won the Super Bowl but they "won" in so many other ways.
To be sure, seeing another person's point of view is hard and often, people just want to argue because they aren't regulated, so they can't process another idea or thought. Did you know that it is believed that 15 to 20% of the world's population has been diagnosed neurodivergent and now that number is growing because older people are being properly diagnosed. I work full time at a private school and lead courses to help grades 5 to 12 who are a blend of neurodivergent conditions; using tools of yoga therapy to help them regulate their body. They often respond with anger and irritability. I always like to educate, so I wrote a social post explaining neurodiversity so if you want to learn more please see below. What I see experience, either at the school or the Intensive Outpatient I work for, is how freeing it is when someone realizes that they are not so unusual and have hope.
In the meantime, hope to see you at a workshop and it has been good to see so many I haven't seen in a long time in person. In the meantime, you are in my thoughts, and I hope you find peace and happiness.
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email: paigesyoga@me.com
--Paige
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